tudung

bismillah

hijab, shawl, tudung bawal semua lah. semua tu overated. Ni belum masuk isu geng tudung labuh or geng free hair dsb.

Dulu masa aku kat skolah asrama, smua orang kena pakai tudung la. Its the rule. Bila keluar sekolah, baru aku tau sape member aku yang snanye pakai tudung or tak pakai tudung. At first it mattered to me. I mean, genuinely, they are my good friends, heck, we've been friends through bad and good times and I honestly just want good things for them.

Logik akal, Tuhan suruh tutup aurat so that kita jauh dari fitnah, tak mengundang pandangan liar lelaki, jin dan syaitan. Its simple pimple.

So, masa aku keluar sekolah ada kawan yang aku care, yang aku rasa boleh terima nasihat aku tegur. We got into an argument but eventually, we grew ahead of our problems and our friendship persevered.

Kawan-kawan rapat aku macam-macam rupa. Ada yang seksi baq ang, ada yang perangai kasar macam lelaki, ada yang ketua badar, ketua naqibah, ketua usrah. But the best thing about them is we all know that we want good things for each other and that we're working our way through our lives to get there.

So what is this crap about orang tudung labuh kena kawan dengan tudung labuh je? Yang free hair kekal free hair. What's up with istilah 'free hair' anyway? We don't even know where that 'free haired' person might be when she is 30 or 40. She might be in a better state than we are now. I know that for sure sebab ada seorang kawan baik aku, dulu dia tak pakai tudung. Keluarga pun tak menekankan sangat. Tapi perjalanan hidup dia yang banyak jugak liku bagai menjadikan dia seseorang yang lebih baik dari aku, today. And I start wearing hijab when I was in primary school.

Boh boh la judge people by their appearance. To both men and women. Yang perempuan asal nampak perempuan lain seksi nak condemn je. Yang laki kalau nampak perempuan seksi nak objectify perempuan tu macam dia tak ada hati & perasaan. What's up with that, seriously. Grow up.